The Credit Crisis Hitting High Performers:

Brilliant in the Boardroom, Bankrupt in the Bedroom!

Capable of closing billion-dollar deals, but coming home to a bed that’s colder than a hostile takeover...

Market-leading professionals are known for their discipline, their drive, and their ability to handle pressure… but behind the public success, there’s a persistent problem that’s plaguing even the most masterful of business magnates… 

A private disconnect most will NEVER admit out loud, but that they silently endure in sexless marriages, relationship roulette and transactional trysts with sugar babies. 

Their lives are those of emotional exhaustion, performative intimacy, and an overwhelming sense that something is missing despite their millions - especially in genuine love and pleasure.

This article lifts the lid on the ever-present problem that the top 1% still sweat silently about.

Why the very thing that made them successful, is costing them their deepest fulfillment…

The Quiet Cost of Visible Achievement

For those who publicly “have it all”, the privilege of privacy is often non-existent. 

With public presentation comes public scrutiny and as such, vulnerability at that level isn’t a right - it’s leverage.

So I’m going to ask you the questions you’ve not allowed yourself to answer... 

• When was the last time you met someone who didn't know or care what you’re worth?

• When was the last time you were able to open up - safely, with no repercussions and no fear of leverage? 

• When was the last time you were able to confide about your problem to someone with no emotional investment in the outcome of your decision - whose only care was to see YOU happier and more satisfied in your life?

Been a while…?

Continue Reading…

Why no-one wants to admit the problem:

Entrepreneurs and leading executives are known for seeing the value in talent - that’s their job! 

However, what starves them of the emotional connection above, is often this skill that has made them successful.

Long story short - In dating, they lead with their achievements, and they therefore attract those who lead with their WANT of the same for themselves...

So let me ask you one more question -

When we’re talking about the most important choice you’ll ever make - your partner - Why is your love life spectacularly tanking…?

It’s because you’re attracting what you’re projecting - those who are with you for your money! 

And until now, i’m sure you’ve been largely aware of it, but you’ve never really seen it as an issue…

As long as they’re attractive, let you throw a leg over now and again, and don’t give you too much shit for flying in and out on a whim... it's fine right..? 

Er, WRONG! 

This kind of thinking will expire long term...

The shine will wear off, you’ll sweep it under the rug, throw yourself into work, pay for performative sex and chase sugar relationships that drain more energy than finance. 

And because you “don’t have the time” to deal with it, you’ll fall into the loop of shallow sex and dissatisfying partnerships because you truly can’t be bothered to dig out the dirt and start again.

You’ll outrun your emotional reality for years with:

• Workaholism

• Sex or sugar dating

• Over-optimising

• Status-based validation

• Numbing (drugs, porn, late nights, thrill-seeking)

But eventually you’ll lose it -

Your wife will give up

Your girlfriend will find someone “better” - read: richer

And you’ll be left alone

Your bank balance lighter from alimony or child support.

Older, colder, and more worn out that you’ll ever admit yourself to being. 

But what if there was an alternative…

One that wouldn’t take years of emotional excavation - but that re-connected you with authentic pleasure and connection - so you attracted those that actually give a shit...

Interested…?

Keep Reading.

The Alternative That Gets Results…

Therapy. Self-help. Coaching - Quick dopamine solutions.

They each have value, but most miss the root.

Because this isn’t just about communication. 

Or scheduling intimacy. 

Or “trying harder.”

This is about reprogramming the subconscious patterns that are sabotaging you - quietly, repeatedly, relentlessly.

Until your unconscious decisions are addressed, you’ll keep building empires on emotional quicksand.

The solution therefore isn’t therapy. 

It’s not coaching. 

And it’s definitely not about telling you what to do...

The solution is strategic emotional recalibration:

• Dismantling outdated emotional patterns.

• Rewiring your behavioural defaults.

• Redefining how you connect with yourself and others.

• Restoring calm, presence, and clarity.

• Create a new foundation for real connection and pleasure, sexually, emotionally, and relationally.

This is private, high-touch, and confidential.

Results-driven recalibration without the bullshit - or the 10 year timeline.

This is not a programme. It’s precision.

Time to Choose Something Better!

If your professional life is built on excellence - your personal life should be too.

You deserve connection that doesn’t drain you. Intimacy that feels like fuel, not friction. And a relationship that reflects your growth, not your patterns.

Because here’s the truth:

Life won’t get any more pleasurable, until you return to what lights you up.

When you’re ready to shift quietly, strategically, and without the fluff - I’ll be here, expecting your call.

To Experience What Real Recalibration Feels Like:

Check out ‘The Return’ 

An immersive, sensually intelligent experience designed to reconnect you with pleasure, presence and meaning, particularly valuable for those navigating stress, burnout, emotional detachment, relationship breakdown, grief or lifestyle fatigue. It is equal parts restorative and revelatory.

Explore The Return: https://intimacy.courtenaydubois.com/the-return-private-experience

Or if you’re looking for something more holistic and healing: 

Read About The Ultimate Breakthrough Experience 

A bespoke long-form engagement for those ready to rewire harmful neurological patterns and end the cycles that sabotage their inner peace, clarity, or personal relationships. Ideal for those who’ve tried rehab, coaching, or traditional therapy - yet still feel stuck in negative cycles.

Explore The Breakthrough: https://www.courtenaydubois.com/the-ultimate-breakthrough-experience

Because even the best need personal perspective -

In life, love, presence and pleasure. 

This is your Reminder: Life is to be LIVED, not just survived…

So let’s get you back to authentic enjoyment.

Looking forward to your contact and walking this path with you...

C x