Intimacy is an integral part of any romantic relationship.
It’s the “chemistry” in our lives and the foundation on which connection is built.
It’s why we do these relationship things - rather than simply being awesome roomies!
However… if you’re in a long term relationship or your dysfunctionally dating, you're bound to experience the peaks and troughs of various stages and sometimes, the spark just dies in the ass (no pun intended)… This can leave you and your lover/s unsatisfied, unfulfilled and utterly uninspired!
Stoking the fire then comes into focus…
For singles with frustrating intimate patterns, OR couples navigating the terrain of a committed relationship, there is an alternative to cheating, divorce or polyamory when the flame flickers...
Transforming your intimate life from within will bring back passion, excitement and true intimacy to your love life, regardless of the behaviour that snuffed it out in the first place and today, I’m going to tell you how to do it!
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy and Hypnotherapy techniques are powerful tools that can be utilized to intensely transform your intimate life. These techniques help individuals understand their own minds deeply, thereby modifying thoughts, emotions, and limiting beliefs that affect interactions with their partner.
Implementing these techniques allows each party to expand their perception, increase self-awareness and see their partner with genuine curiosity and compassion, while they address the symptomatic issues in their relationship.
By doing this, they build communication, increase trust and offer the safety needed to unveil authenticity and allow each party in the relationship to open.
So how does that bring the sexy back?
NLP focuses on the connection between the language used by individuals, their behaviours, and their unconscious mind. It unveils the stories we tell ourselves based on our own experiences and programming, which dictate our perception about what others’ behaviour “means”. Very often, our perception of what someone else meant by their actions couldn’t be further from the truth in their reality. What they do is about them! Their programming, their limiting beliefs, their assumptions, a lot of which they themselves will be consciously unaware of and running by autopilot!
In effect, when we GET this about ourselves and about our partner, we can begin to see what is actually going on, rather than the stories running rampant in our heads.
NLP techniques can therefore be used to transform any communication failure between partners. Meta-programs can be identified using NLP, which enables individuals to understand their partner's communication patterns and see their words and their actions in a completely different light.
This results in enhancing authentic and meaningful communication, allowing for much greater curiosity, compassion, humour and mutual understanding, leading to very effective conflict resolution 99% of the time.
Time Line Therapy is another technique that helps people explore and learn about their past experiences, which may be limiting their ability to be intimate. This allows individuals to deal with negative beliefs and unconscious emotions related to intimacy. It also helps people to overcome limiting patterns, allowing the individual a better understanding of themselves, their partner and what they actually WANT for their lives.
Hypnotherapy in addition, can be used to powerfully suggest alternative ways of thinking, communicating and behaving during intimacy. The use of guided visualizations and hypnotic suggestions facilitate an improvement in perception, imagination and focus to achieve relaxation, joy and profoundly positive change.
Hypnotherapy also allows us to access the unconscious mind to further solidify the change in behaviour by visualizing ourselves accomplishing the desired outcome as if we’ve already achieved it. This leads us to focus on and work toward what we actually DO want, directing our energy into positivity and creation, rather than reacting unhelpfully to our fears in the moment and becoming negative and overwhelmed.
It is through this focus on what we DO want, and the increase of safety, trust and communication that leads to increased desire in relationships.
It is our resulting ability to be authentically ourselves, to be seen and wholly accepted by our partner, AND to offer that for them in return, that transforms the flicker into a roaring fire, igniting what was once a boring or superficial relationship into an deeply intimate and passionate one.
By implementing NLP, Time Line Therapy and Hypnotherapy techniques, you will unequivocally deepen your connection to yourself. From there, you can objectively decide what is best for you and your partner, and commit to resolving the issues or not. If the relationship is aligned and worth the commitment, both parties choose to open up wholly. If values are misaligned and the choice is to quit, both parties can do so with compassion and clarity on what they individually want and make a commitment to following that, without the hard feelings of unresolved story telling.
These techniques sharpen the emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects of a relationship, and ignite the spark that you have inside you - both to love, and be loved in your life.
In a partnership, you will rediscover what drew you together as a couple and have the tools you need to articulately communicate what you want for the future and each other. If you're single, this will break the long held patterns that are unconsciously taking you from one disastrous date to the next. From this kind of truth, the sky is the limit… But it all starts with you! ♥️
If you’d like to identify YOUR biggest intimate block, click this link and go for your life!
OR if you’d like to chat one-on-one, completely overhaul your relationship or your intimate patterns, book in with me via the booking page and let’s get banging!
Until next time…
All my love,
Courtenay x
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